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The First 72 Hours
You don't have to figure out everything today.
When separation or divorce becomes real, everything can feel urgent. It isn't.
Start with the one thing weighing on you most right now.
Does something need attention right now?
What’s weighing on you most right now?
Choose one. You can come back to the others later.
- MoneyI'm worried about bills, accounts, debt, or how I'll manage financially.
- HomeI'm worried about the house, where I'll live, or what happens next.
- Legal QuestionsI don't know what I need to do, what documents matter, or who I should talk to.
- CommunicationI don't know what to say—or whether I should respond at all.
- ChildrenI'm worried about how this will affect my children and their routines.
- MeI'm overwhelmed and having a hard time thinking about what to do next.
- What Comes NextI know things are changing. I just don't know where to begin.
More than 72 hours have passed? You're still in the right place. Start with what's weighing on you today.